Where there is love, there is pain.

Just because the way you hurt isn't a big deal to others, or it doesn't even make sense, or it may be the littlest deal in the world, but let me tell you, it does not mean your pain does not count. Never underestimate the power of love, sometimes when you least expect it, it hit you straight to the heart. Until your heart is broken, that's when you know how great love felt. So here to all the ones who cry over a bad break up, a harsh goodbye, who never forgave themselves for someone else decision, you need to just let go, breathe in, breathe out, focus on your life, focus about your own being, and the world will take care of itself. You need to live, be happy for yourself, understand that life has a lot of ups and down, and trust me there will be more to come. Know that bad relationships happen so that you can set better standards for the next guy to come along and not break your heart. Know that love is about growing, loving, compromising, even if it leads to separation, it's still consider love if you want that person to be happy; even if it's not with you. Mistakes are to be learned from, not to burden your heart, not to degrade your thoughts or others who are making that mistake. No matter how much it hurts, that achy feeling that makes your chest feel suffocated, it's okay to cry. In the end, just know that everything will be okay; if it's not it is not okay. Have faith in yourself that you are strong enough to endure what pain comes your way, what obstacle life throws at you, what wrong turns you made that you can fix. Just live. I hope that for people who have been hurt or is going through it can understand and follow through with me, sometimes it is harder than it seems. Something can seem so little and not a big deal but it is actually so mediocre and a big deal to you. Stop allowing yourself to feel hurt, and allow yourself to be happy. Start day by day by having a hobby, occupying yourself with things that make you happy, even if it's something little. You got to take the small steps first to get to the bigger destination. Trust me, trust me, trust me, in the end all that hurt and pain you go through wouldn't matter as much as what you have learned and will use to change your future.

With regards,
Jennifer Anne Minnie Nguyen<3