kill them with kindness.

You know, that's how life is. Bad things happen to good people because it's those good people, that can stand on their own two feet. Buddha put you through this storm and if you have faith in yourself, you'll get through it. Sometimes life really isn't fair, you go through things over and over and all it does is ever hurt you. But you should know what you're capable of, these obstacles is just another opportunity for better things to fall together. In your life you'll have arrogant people to deal with who will tell you what to do, who will try to act like they know your struggle and make you live your life how they want it, even if those arrogant people are your friends. It's funny how people act like they look out for you and is trying to play that whole good friend role when they don't notice that they're just being selfish. If they really truly care for your well being, they will want you to be happy; even if it makes them unhappy. They would learn to adapt and accept what they can't change, even if they don't want it to be that wat. If they can't handle you are your worst, they sure as hell do not deserve you at your best. You're a human-being and you deserve happiness, if they don't like what they see they can stop looking, they don't like what they hear they can stop listening. No one is asking them to like what you do or enjoy what you're doing, as friends, you just want their support. Only ignorant people make something out of nothing, they believe in what they want to believe whether it's true or not. Who are they to judge and point fingers? Last time I remember these so called friends, are people who love you regardless what you're doing, don't care who you're friends with, never assume when they don't know the whole story, never judge when you make a mistake. Those are people worth calling your friends. The only people you need in your life are the ones who prove they need you in their's. You don't have to live up to other people's expectations anymore, you're an adult now Kim. You should be making your own decisions without people's permission. It's your life, live it and take every chance and opportunity to change things, to make them better, to be happy. I love you<3